From Lori Deschene of Tiny Buddha: "If we want something from people, we come to them from a place of lack, unbalance, and maybe even neediness. If we want something for people, we come to them from a place of wholeness, presence, and maybe even love. And it’s not just about self-confidence or altruism. It’s also about taking responsibility for creating positive energy around us, which inevitably multiples. When we give good thoughts, good vibes, and a smile, we generally get it back."